
As humans, I believe we look WAY to into things, whether it is about friendships, books, classes, lovers, or even paintings. For instance, when we study a book in English, or a music piece in music, we look into things to see what the author intended the reader/listener to see/hear. We look for language techniques, foreshadowing, and hidden messages beneath the words on the page. But do you think the reader thought about all this as he was writing? Is it possible that he just had a good idea and decided to write a story that interested him, without the complications? Maybe he added a few metaphors and similes along the way, but I don’t believe he would have created a story and meaning underneath each word and sentence.
Looking way into things not only happens when reading literature, it can also happen in real life. For example, today in TOK class one of my friends spoke about how she looks way to into relationships. If she likes someone and they talk constantly, but then one day the person don’t talk to her, she will start thinking of horrible and exaggerated things as to why he didn’t talk to her. She would think that maybe he found someone else, maybe she said something that turned him away, maybe he stopped liking her all of a sudden, maybe he didn’t even like her to begin with he was just being polite, all of this starts going through her mind, and soon she becomes upset and angry at herself, when the reason for him not talking to her that day might have been because he was busy, and didn’t even have time to sit down, let alone talk to her.
As humans we look way to into things, and this complicates our lives and stresses us out.
I will try to not look TOO into things,
for a while, maybe it will de-stress my life,
so I can just enjoy living.